Getting these three things right can make a huge difference and can spell catastrophe if your not careful. Your gal will treasure these things and will want to have them saved and cherished for the rest of her life.
Are you happiest when you just accomplished something and are given credit for a job well done? You finished a project or created something great? Your identity, your self-esteem, maybe your validated and encouraged in the best ways possible. Your woman, most women, are family centered and have a strong love and emotion basis. Knowing this will help you raise the bar when it comes to these 3 areas of romance.
First lets talk about the Proposal. Whether you want to be creative, simple, loving, special, intimate or public, you need to realize she will repeat the story 1,000 times between girlfriends, family, co-workers, strangers, for years and years to come. Give her a story that she can be proud and joyful to share.
The Ring is a centerpiece to the wedding trilogy. She will wear it as a precious reminder of your love. Do your homework on what she loves as diamonds come in different styles. Women have a preference. Buy as much stone as you can afford, but do not go cheap unless you really have to. Your ring is special too. Mens wedding bands for the modern man has gravitated towards titanium. They are affordable, can be designed with diamonds, inlays and colors. They are very exciting for mens jewelry rings and bracelets too.
Thirdly, the vows must be from the heart, the power of the spoken word can not be underestimated as you make a public statement of your love. Speak to her impact in your life. How you feel about past, present and your intentions for the future. Slight humor can help break tension if its within your character. Do not wait to the last minute on this one and find a quiet place and time to reflect.
Legacy is not mentioned as much as it used to be. You have the opportunity too make your own movie when it comes to the big 3. The women in your life will appreciate how you played it out as you control most of it. Is it going to win an Oscar or go directly to dvd. Be thoughtful with your commitment to her, your family and God as you embark on the most rewarding time in your life.
Do not slouch or take the Big 3 lightly. The journey is a special one and you have the power to make it extraordinary for her and your marriage.
To sum it up, it all matters from proposal to the ring to the vows and most importantly living an excellent life in marriage. Setting up your foundation of love and commitment, like building a house, can be solid, made of quality and well designed. Here’s to people in love, the bride and the groom, many years of happiness and joy.
